we have to stop bullying people into liking or accepting us

this was sitting on my spirit and i was urged to font this.
from the desk of the foxhole.

We have to stop getting mad because people don’t agree with us.

People will not like us because we are black.
People will not like us because we are gay.
People will not like us because we are trans.
People will not like us because we are non-binary.
People will not like us because we are people.

when it comes to sexuality or gender

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they didn’t realize what they had until they became part of your past

they always say what happened in the past should stay there.
i believe something different.
now,
unless you came from abuse and trauma,
you want to deadlock that door and move away completely.

What about situations where you fell out with someone and they come back?

i have a lot of people who realize how great i was once we fall out.

many people,
if they can find me,
end up hitting me up to rekindle what we had.
i just had someone who came back like 3 weeks ago.
i still haven’t called them to catch up.

i’m pretty knowledgeable on this subject so these are my thoughts…

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i ended up clappin’ cheeks because others told me how hard it would be

this is gonna be a silly entry but maybe a life-changing one,
depending on who picks up what i’m putting down.
so as you know,
or didn’t,
but i’ve been playing breath of the wild on the switch.
it has been keeping my mentalz pretty chill.
i haven’t played it for a few days but i finally got to the boss before the boss.

Van Naboris,
the dreaded camel in the desert level.

everyone,
from foxholers to reviews online,
talked about how difficult the level and boss were.
going into it,
i dreaded it and started doubting myself.
i had the skills and learned how to whoop ass up until that point.
apparently,
this is where all i learned was gonna be tested.
foxhole…

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what i’ve realized while playing breath of the wild these days…

i’m legit obsessed with this game atm.
breath of the wild
on the nintendo switch best represents life.

i bought this game in 2021 during the lockdown.
during that time,
i wasn’t in the right headspace for it.
i picked it up twice and each time,
i felt overwhelmed.
like my own life around that time,
i felt intimated by this big forest in front of me.
in zelda,
once you move past a particular section,
the world opens up for you to explore.
each time…

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i’m grieving today

we never talk about grieving enough.
when you hear the word “grieve”,
you think it comes from mourning the death of a loved one.

“I grieved the loss of Star Fox.”

…but we don’t actually realize that we can grieve a living person.
we grieve the loss of people who are still alive in many different ways.
i’m grieving today

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fact vs opinion vs bias

sometimes,
when i go on social media,
i often realize many people are stupid af.
they spread opinions and biases that some folks follow as facts.
no one does their research but acts like lemmings on a cliff.

in my life,
when i feel like shit is hitting the fan,
i have also been prone to following my own opinions or bias.
in therapy,
my therapist will stop me and ask

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