“When you keep meeting the same male over and over,
they are all trying to teach you something.”

the a-ha moment.
someone said that to me over the weekend and it was profound.
it felt like it cleared my sinuses and put me in another timeline.
after i sat and thought about it,
all of those wolves that broke me all had the same scent…

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i have been obsessed with this documentary on max called “last call: when a serial killer stalked queer new york“.
i didn’t even know this was a thing until i started watching.
he was like the summer of sam serial hyena was to brunettes in new yawk.

The serial hyena would meet unsuspecting gay males at bars,
take them home for a night of sex,
and they’d be found in pieces in Jersey days later.
Their heads and limbs in one area; their belongings in another.

the documentary focused on homophobia in the 90s new yawk too.
it was a time when violence against gays was at a high and accepted.
nypd did not gaf and indulged in their own hatred towards gays.
add onto this deranged serial killing hyena in the background,
it was a tough time to be gay in new yawk during the 90s.
each victim was different but it made me think about something…

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i don’t think folks see the seriousness of elon musk messing up twitter.
he clearly doesn’t know wtf he is doing.
genius,
who?
it’s not even twitter anymore because it’s called ( X ) now.

One day,
we are going to have a discussion of why we allowed certain people in government,
platforms,
and the presidency.
They used their power to fuck everything up.

i think he thought people would be lost without twitter but:

Threads and Spill entered the chat

the real drama that is brewing tho…

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they know i like amateur porn with a focus on missionary and pov doggy.
after yesterday’s reveal about cassie russell,
i need people to stop being so stupid with their technology.
this is not 1993. or 2003.
we are not in the age where people can fake kidnappings so easily.

EVERYTHING IS BEING TRACED

here are a few of the things i learned…

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i hate when i hear people pressuring others to have kids.
like,
why do they even care?
some people freak out when i say i don’t want kids.
“i don’t like them and i don’t want them.”
add on:
they are expensive and the way they setting this country up nowadays…
nope.

it’s like they pressure you into something “because you are supposed to“.
i don’t think i ever wanted kids tbh.
as a kid,
i never dreamed of being a dad.
hell,
did i even want to be married?
as you get deep into your 30s and you are chillin’,
everyone starts to ask and wonder…

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i’ve noticed something in this new onlyfans era:

Some of ya’ll don’t like to wear condoms.

thanks to prep,
or very “living dangerously” folks,
many of ya’ll like to go raw in any and every hole.
the straights are on that raw meat diet too.
so it’s hard,
literally,
to get many people to wear condoms on their sexual adventures.
condom use and prep don’t stop STIS tho.
a fav foxholer sent me the lead on a drug that may help tho.
philip johnson (@philaye),
with the help of lufty (@sincerely_lufty),
made a video about a couple who took doxypep after a threesome…

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