…he ended up blocking your Finsta on IG.

yikes.
a Foxholer slid into my DMs today with this spicy dilemma,
and it’s been simmering on my mind ever since.
first things first…

in the gay forests,
i have learned one thing that i always find quite interesting:

In one community,
everyone has different experiences and reacts to them differently.
We’re also surrounded by others who either understand or are puzzled by those experiences.

….and for some weird reason,
many gays don’t give grace and be gentle to those who are confused.
they speak to others with the same aggression and hatred during their own confusion era.
i hate to font it but you sound like your mother.

its important to understand we are all different and many of us are confused af.
i got a DM from a Foxholer that i was allowed to share with everyone in the hole…

i got an inter-forest dm from a foxholer a few days ago.
it was a thread on reddit they wanted me to discuss.
it was titled:

I’ve been extremely homophobic in the closet. I regret a lot of my behavior

…which i knew was gonna be juicy.
this is what was fonted:

This post is going to be weird, and if it’s inappropriate for this sub let me know:

I lurk here a little bit, and a post this week has been stuck in my head. It was something about an older, dl guy who bottoms for a guy but is extremely homophobic in his everyday life. This is very similar to my situation. I’m 21m, born and raised in a republican family. I have voted that way and expressed support in my everyday life, online, etc. I have also been extremely hateful about gay men, specifically more submissive ones. I have made countless jokes, memes, and rants against LGBTQ people. I would make fun of openly gay people in high school, don’t do this anymore but I still do a lot of bad talking about gay men in general and online.

All the while doing this, I’m a closeted gay man that has bottomed for dozens of guys. This is going to sound really stupid, but I guess I validated my adult homophobic behavior by my hookups not caring. A couple of my longtime f buddies I’ve opened up to this about and they thought it was hot being with a republican that acts the way I do irl. Except one who ghosted me after telling me off. In seeing how hurt this subreddit was by the other guy in the post, I have felt guilt for my actions. I’m making fun of people and being hateful for stuff I’m too embarrassed to admit to. I’ve been an incredibly shitty person, I’m really giving brief details but it’s not good at all what I have done.

I’m sorry if this post is upsetting. I feel like this was the best place to get this off my chest, and if you have any words for me, no matter how harsh, I’m all ears. I have done wrong to this community when I should be trying to fight the battle with you all. I don’t know if I can absolve what I’ve done but I’d like to try.

and these are my quick thoughts…

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ever so often,
one of my foxholers has a story to tell.
one that usually involves scams and flim flams.
oh,
the life of the attentionisto must be a hard one.
when you live such a busy life,
many can’t come through with their promises.
a foxholer sent me a whole dossier about @xlexperience.
i was sent an alleged experience to share with the class…

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the foxhole sends in tips daily for my review.
from attentionistos attentionisto-ing to celebs and their drama.
not often does a foxholer send in a tip about themselves tho.
a foxholer is the victim of the latest tiktok challenge called #kiachallenge.
he happens to own a kia and it has been broken into three times.
the #kiachallenge trend goes as follows according to ( x nbcnewyork )…

“It shows how easy it is to steal the particular brands’ vehicles because of a security flaw with the cars.”

this is what the foxholer sent in for our review…

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