Category: A LIL TASTE OF JAMARI
don’t break our deal in the future because you want kids and i don’t
you click with someone,
the sex is amazing but after some time together,
they want kids/marriage but you don’t.
you told them before the relationship so it isn’t a surprise.
a breakup is on the horizon because 1/2 didn’t understand english.
^the couple above are divorcing because of that dealbreaker.
for gays,
it could be open relationships or roles changing.
it all made me wonder…
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i can finally put it to rest
“It’s not my fault”.
that is what i said after a conversation with my cousin today.
healing can come in many ways unexpectedly.
sometimes,
we need to go back and really research our family tree.
we will find out what happened to us and how it started.
after hearing about how trauma started in my family,
i felt like i found a key and opened the doors to narnia in my attic.
many of my family members have one thing in common…
we have to stop bullying people into liking or accepting us
this was sitting on my spirit and i was urged to font this.
from the desk of the foxhole.
We have to stop getting mad because people don’t agree with us.
People will not like us because we are black.
People will not like us because we are gay.
People will not like us because we are trans.
People will not like us because we are non-binary.
People will not like us because we are people.
when it comes to sexuality or gender…
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round and round you go, you keep meeting the same type of man, hoe.
“When you keep meeting the same male over and over,
they are all trying to teach you something.”
the a-ha moment.
someone said that to me over the weekend and it was profound.
it felt like it cleared my sinuses and put me in another timeline.
after i sat and thought about it,
all of those wolves that broke me all had the same scent…
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cliff hanger
i have been having legit nightmares lately.
it could be something i started doing tho.
last night,
i dreamt i was in an interesting car crash…
this dating thing is a war zone and the battle isn’t who tops or bottoms
finding a partner feels like going to war these days.
i admire those who found one with no issues.
keeping them after you get them is a whole other issue.
having pretty muscles or a rotund tail means nada nowadays.
the “you need to be willing to top and bottom” means nothing either.
that is what we sell to people in hopes of being chosen.
it’s like a job interview and how we lie to get the job.
You gotta be fully prepared to do battle.
trying to find someone to love can be so demoralizing…
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