…buuuuuuuuuut on the flip side,
i’m glad i don’t fit it because it has worked in my favor.
see here is the thing.

While everyone is following The Idiots around,
I get to move like a fox in the shadows.

i watch the idiots fuckin’ up and learn from their mistakes.
i saw how they desperately want to get in the hen house.
they go through the front; i go through the back.
my advice to everyone who doesn’t fit…

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i’m going to get down on my knees for this entry.
even when things don’t work out,
we don’t give ourselves grace for simply trying.
something inside urged me to give grace today.
here is my current truth…

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deep down inside,
we all want to be chosen.
we want to wake up next to the one rather than “the one right now”.
even the most thottish gay males want to settle down at one point.
we have had many discussions about steven beck.
i always thought he would remain a bachelor for all of his life.
it’s official via his ig press release…

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my sister was obsessed with b5 when she was younger.
it was cute watching her light up when they came on tv.
they were all brothers or something,
right?
dustin michael,
one of the members of the former group,
had an announcement to share with us.
after the recent death of a trans vixen,
he decided to share his own truth to the forests with this ig video…

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so you know we been in the foxhole for a minute.
every day,
i learn so much from you guys.
besides therapy,
my life has improved greatly because of my community.
i don’t have many male gay friends in real life but within the foxhole:

B!TCH,
I’M BLESSED.

i saw ^that tweet above and you know we like a gym wolf or 10.

i put this on my stories but i’m gonna post some facts i’ve learned in detail.
this may not apply to all attentionistos but it applies to many.
leggo…

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regardless of what you think of lil nas x,
one thing is for certain is that he is iconic.
many of us love to say that being black and gay holds us back.
we need to change our thinking.
i’m here to font that only we are holding ourselves back.
lil nas x celebrated his birthday the other day with a photo shoot.
hbd lnx btw!
this is how many likes he got on his post…

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