homo-normative

i feel like black gays are more hetero-normative tbh

for years,
i have seen gays scolding other gays living a “hetero-normative life“.
i guess that means not living like how the straights live and i get that.
gays have a lot more freedom and disposable income.
~~does it seem like straight males are trying to emulate our lives these days?~~
so i had to wonder…