Sometimes,
its best not to ruin what makes you alluring.
Once you open your mouth,
or font some dumb shit,
you will be known as “the idiot” .

janet,
oh janet.
po,
po,
janet.

we see why beyonce keeps her mouth shut on her internet.
the villagers are always hungry to eat and throw bones on the front lawn.
janet didn’t really speak about justin timberlake during nipplegate.
when she did,
she gave a PR answers and kept her real opinion to herself.
it’s puzzling why when asked about kamala harris and her ethnicity,
she is gonna say via variety…

hollywood is in meltdown mode,
and if this were a TV show,
we’d be right at the pilot.

“Powerful hyena goes down and everyone’s rattled.
Why?
Well,
sit tight because as the season unfolds,
the secrets will start pouring out.
A little drama,
a little death,
some same sex hookups,
and a ton of junkies galore.
There is enough dirt to bury careers.”

what did diddy have on these people because allegedly…

Ever get that gut feeling when something just doesn’t sit right with you?

yeah,
that’s still me with dahmer on netflix.
for some reason,
my spirit REFUSES to let me watch it.
don’t ask me why but i’m going to keep listening to it.
i’ve binged all of ryan murphy’s other crime shows,
and i”m even going to indulge in his recent take on aaron hernandez,
but dahmer?
nope.

yesterday,
ryan’s take of the menendez brothers crime story hit netflix.

in a nutshell:

Lyle and Erik Menendez killed both of their parents,
Jose and Kitty,
in the 90s.
They legit blew their heads off with shot guns while they watched TV on the couch.
They became a big deal because of how they were rich,
white passing,
and attractive.
They are currently in jail for life.

but here’s where it gets weird,
i saw a tweet about the show…

We didn’t care that we gave that person trauma.
We didn’t care they needed a friend and we posed as an enemy.
We didn’t care they liked us and we took advantage of that.
We didn’t care we had power and used it to hurt others.
We didn’t care about their wounds after we beat them.

…but suddenly we care when the tables have turned?
we care about our past victims because we are in the position to feel like one.
i’m here to font…

Do we know when we are doing the absolute most?

some gay males are super horny,
like,
all the time.
in being in horny mode 24/7,
they often are missing one thing:

Understanding other people’s boundaries.

it’s like when we randomly show up to an event we aren’t invited to,
but then we’re confused why people were talking heavy shit about us.

Sidebar: I don’t show up to anyone’s event unless I’m personally invited.
If it ain’t on Jamari’s calendar,
I ain’t going.
I’ve seen people act wild shady when someone shows up to an event they broadcasted.

so it’s one thing to walk in your authentic self but:

When does it start crossing the line?

i saw a clip on twitter and was like…

I couldn’t help but wonder…
Is he fine AF or do we need to jack off so we can think clearly?

we’ve all been there.
that moment when lust overrides logic.
it has made many of us caught up in a never ending cycle of bullshit.
God forbid they sell sex work then we have made someone a millionaire.
it can turn a random male into “the one i can’t stop obsessing over“.

Facials
Muscles
Privates
Familiarity?

but is he actually fine AF or…