one thing i’ve noticed with most people,
especially males:

When people are guilty or hiding something,
their insecurities drive them to convince everyone of their innocence.
They go into panic mode and do everything to change other people’s minds.

we see it all the time with males who are accused of being gay.
they’ll do EVERYTHING in their power to convince everyone they’re straight.
it’s a natural self defense mechanism but it leads to our eventual downfall.
this is the most i’ve ever seen stevie j talking to the media tbh.

all eyes are on him being associated with diddy’s alleged shenanigans.
he posted this to show us what goes down at a diddy party..

omg that is how the Youtubers title their videos.

i’ve learned in life,
especially as a blogger,
that people will admire you UNTIL you say or font something they don’t agree with.
it’s a thing called “life“.
as gay males,
we know what its like to live our lives one way and be ostracized after coming out.
it happens to the best and the worst of us.
i wrote something yesterday that caused quite the stir.

i didn’t think anything of it when i wrote it because i’m usually poppin off at the fingers.
it was taken out of context so let’s address it but first…

i remember being a teen fox and hearing about freaknik in atl.
the straights that were older went.
all i heard about it was:

“…and yo,
they be fuckin in the streets!”

that is all my sexually struggling ass needed to hear.
i can’t even imagine all the “90s fine” pineapples down there who were ack’ up.
the Foxholer told me:

“I hooked up with some wolves during Freaknik.
Remember,
ATL was always a gay mecca.
You get some likka,
weed,
and be in the right place and time in these curious males and…”

mmm.
i said to myself after i watched we could never have that level of ratchet in atl again.
as fun,
wild,
and free as that would be,
a Foxholer sent me this…

my wolf friend was JUST telling me how he never brings strange vixens in his crib.
if he wants to smash,
he’ll get a room or he’ll go to their spot if he feels comfortable.
i find a lot of straight males have that energy tbh.
usually,
it’s fuckboi energy but still…
a Foxholer sent me a video that was sort if disturbing.
remove “sort of”.
arquez man,
deezy,
decided he was gonna expose him to get him kicked out of his apartment.
he decided to expose himself first…

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as i learn to really observe people,
i learn that those who are a “pro-” something are really insecure.
they play a good cosplay of “the strong one” or “i’m above it all” but…

These people are the first to be easily broken when the flames get too hot.

intense amounts of criticism usually breaks them.
that being fonted:

Lizzo annoys me to the core nowadays.

she was so amazing when she first came out and then took a serious left turn.
from the antics during the panny to claims of alleged bullying from her dancers.
you’d think she would lay low,
let this all blow over,
and come out with a song for us to forget those moments.
this is what i assumed she was doing because i haven’t heard her name in a minute.
nope!
i rolled my eyes when i saw her latest social media post…

The following gave me second hand embarrassment.

i’m starting to realize you can’t tell certain pineapples that you are into them.
it goes beyond just a fear of rejection.
it’s like a game of “i just randomly landed on his dick and here we are“.
it also is a “crush killer” too.
the person who reveals their true feelings vocally first loses the game.
the person who can get the other to reveal their interest by body language wins.
jerrod carmicheal lost when it came to revealing his crush to tyler the creator…