like the cool kids go past school,
so do bullies.
it’s amazing to me how bullies still have a place in society.
being nasty to others was something we looked down on before,
but if someone is real good at it,
it can make them a star.
at whatever age,
some folks will always be bullies.
others became bullies after being bullied.
they literally morphed into their oppressors.
this vixen as my job is being bullied and it truly breaks my heart…
she is beautiful,
and is a good worker,
but her bosses seem to be some real demons to her.
it’s really disgusting the abuse she faces every single day.
its almost like they assigned her as their personal punching bag.
I’ve been there so I know
the difference between her and i is i’ve learned to fight back.
i can be a real smart ass when needs be.
there is a timidness to her spirit.
her bullies have picked up on it so they know which buttons to press.
from what i’ve been told,
they also gas light,
and manipulated others against her.
all classic abuser traits.
at this point,
she’s mentally and emotionally wounded with barely any fight left.
that really hurts me to see that.
it’s sad that we don’t outgrow being bullied.
we can have amazing jobs/careers,
but there is always that one (or two) dumb ass that ruins it.
it leads to being a struggle to get outta bed in the morning.
an email or message can trigger intense anxiety.
you had to set them straight so they don’t underestimate you.
it’s hard when it’s in a work setting.
Some workplace bullies hold your destiny and paycheck above your head like a carrot
the moment they smell fear,
it’s game over.