MY WOLF LEFT ME FOR A BIG DICK BITCH!

“i have something to tell you all.
i’m a dude.
ive been hiding my candy in my cute little panties,
but i’m a tranny.
a drag queen.
a shanghai surprise.
a plum smuggler.
boobs on top; balls below.
you know, a private dick…”

christina aguilera as samantha from sex in the city.

trannies.
we have seen them.
we have been around them.
some look like real women that you need to see proof they are really a man.
others look like they threw on wig after coming back from football practice.

whatever they are and however way they look,
one things for sure,
they create a ton of hate from foxes, jackals, and hyenas when they are mentioned.
but is it friendly competition… or all out jealousy?
i started to wonder…

Is it really foxes VS trannies?

i won’t lie to you,
but i could not stand trannies before.
i’ll be honest.
they made me uncomfortable.
i’ll tell you why.
i hated that every time i turned my head,
one was with the wolf of my dreams.
as much i could do squats,
spend 24 hours in the gym,
give the best throat,
or literally ride his dick so hard that:

… it still wouldn’t be enough.
i found out about all the trannies who were in the music videos.
the ones the rappers and baller wolves fuck with.
i know of a few rapper wolves who are huge tranny chasers.
some who are in your itunes now.
i remember couple years ago,
when i was on the chat sites heavy,
this fine ass wolf told me he would only fuck with me if i wore a wig and high heels.
it made me feel like i wasn’t worthy.
first, i would make an ugly vixen.
secondly,
it definitely  made me feel like i had to compete with them for the dick i wanted.
all the profiles online with the muscular bodies were requesting “trannies only“.
now, they don’t bother me at all.
i matured and got my mind right.
plus i like to see them getting fucked stupid.

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that is,
until they are the ones who are doing the fucking.
i don’t understand that.
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i think the hate for trannies comes from the competition.
while the average fox has to do so much,
the tranny has to do very little.
it is amazing to me how wolves would fuck with a tranny who looks like blanka from street fighter,
but would have us doing all these hoops just to get choose.
it can get a little annoying to be quite honest.
sadly for trannies,
many of them are just cum dumpsters for these hit ‘n’ quit wolves.
they may get a date depending on how feminine they look,
but they don’t get anything but the dick.
so in their world,
they also have to deal with the bullshit as we do.
a wolf will dip when it comes time to move past fucking and be taken seriously.

so when you think about it,
is it really a competition… or the same struggle?
it seems like we only hate on trannies because they get more dick than we do.
but, are they ever choose?
are they also tired of being sex toys?
it seems like d/l wolves only get with trannies because they look close to vixens as possible.
someone to help allow their precious egos to feel more comfortable.
which could be a bigger issue for the wolf than any one of us.
but ultimately,
in the lifestyle food chain,
they get the pipe first.
honestly speaking,
it seems the more feminine you are in whatever you do,
the more wolves you get.
so it’s no surprise if you look like a legit chick,
no matter the size dick in ya pants,
you get it faster.
so i had to ask…

Do trannies get better dick than foxes?

Author: jamari fox

the fox invited to the blogging table.

32 thoughts on “MY WOLF LEFT ME FOR A BIG DICK BITCH!

  1. …….I don’t even know where to start after reading that but at least you did and I thank you for it.

    (I am just being honest)

    I don’t think it’s competition because I KNOW I can bag any dude that I want. I have had kind you can think of so I don’t feel like I have to compete. That’s just me and my confidence. Can’t speak for the other boys..

    I think it’s that gays don’t really understand the transgender life. I was told by someone who shall remain anonymous that he actually fears transgender people because it freaks him out that a dude could have boobies and a girl can be hairy…his words…

    There has always been this nasty rift within the gender non conforming community mostly between the gays and the transwomen.

    A lot of it is lack of knowledge and education. Another factor is lack of self esteem so it’s easy to join our oppressors and make fun of the transgender women to make ourselves look (and feel better about ourselves). We feed into the stereotypes of what a ‘tranny’ is. Not all of them are ‘porn stars, escorts or show girls. There are a lot of them who live normal lives.

    It’s ironic that some of us feel like trans women get all the fine men, when most wolves won’t even date a fem boy or a drag queen (yes there is a difference) ‘because if they wanted a woman they would be straight’ nonsense..

    Let’s face it, some men like cyst women, some men like women with a little extra and some men like other men….

    Bottom line is RESPECT. We want to be appreciated as gay men but we QUICK to demean and disrespect the transgender community (let’s not forget the bisexual community as well but that’s another topic).

    I am not attracted to transwomen but I wouldn’t dare disrespect them. I understand their struggles and some of it parallel to what we as gay men go through..

    I attend TDOR every year and it’s fucking depressing because besides the murders and HIV deaths, you have a lot of trans people, who kill themselves because they just wasn’t strong enough. They couldn’t take the comments and jeers. The abuse…

    You have no idea what these people go through just to be who they are. Just like we didn’t choose to be gay/bisexual….they didn’t choose to feel like they were born in the wrong body..

    It’s just sad that we gays don’t or won’t try to understand… It makes me sick to the core..

    1. Like your sensitive comments, theluckeystar. People hate on transgenders because they don’t understand them. And, unbeknownst to most people is that many of the men who seek out transgenders are the ones looking to get penetrated.

      The lives of many transgernders are wrought with despair because most jobs will not hire them which lead many into sex work as a means of survival. There is an excellent sensitivity program in the District of Columbia where the employment services department is training them for jobs and actually placing them in jobs.

      By the way, 29 states can still fire or not hire gays and lesbians simply for being gay.

        1. I can’t answer that, Jamari. A suspicion I have, and I want to stress it’s just a suspicion, is that the men who want to get penetrated by transgenders do not want to have gay men penetrate them for fear word might get out. So, by having penetrative sex with transgenders, the thinking might be that no one would believe they had engaged in such, if someone was to talk. Interestingly, most of the men I saw in my work who dealt with transgenders were married to women and considered themselves to be heterosexual. I suspect they may have feared asking their wives to perform various acts, thus raising questions/suspicions in their wives.

          1. Jamari, that brings something funny to mind. People would be absolutely blown away if they only knew what goes on behind doors. From your work in the business, I know you can relate to this. I have been in so many gatherings with family and friends where the television has been turned on and male family members would make comments about how attractive certain female singers, attresses or even news commentators were or the women making the same comments about male celebrities, and all I could do would be to sit there and try hard not to laugh and keep from saying, “If you only knew.”

          2. ^yup.
            half of these singers are lesbians.
            a lot of beards.
            rappers who like trannies.
            rappers who like men.
            if some of these homophobic dudes knew the same rappers they worshipped took dick,
            they would probably die.

      1. I don’t know because I have never been penetrated by a transsexual nor do I want to.

        I would assume it’s the same fantasy that men have about cyst women fucking them or a gay man who wants to be fucked by another man.

        different strokes for different folks?

  2. I really hate all the hate transgenders and transsexuals get. They get heat from both the gay community and the straight community. I do believe, sometimes, it is out of jealousy. I don’t think they get better dick than foxes though. I believe it’s an equal share of dick. I can’t tell you how many stories my friends tell me about how wack some of those tranny chasers are in bed.

  3. My answer would have to be NO. It’s one’s opinion of what good dick actually is. I wouldn’t consider a good looking man to be associated with good dick but that’s not what this is really about. When it comes to trannies men only like them for one or two reasons. Either they are not yet comfortable with their sexuality, or they just like trannies because they simply like the mix between a man and a woman. The men who are not comfortable with their sexuality yet, in their sick twisted minds they see trannies as women. No I am not saying men are sick just because they like trannies, but because they are in denial. Even though they have dicks, I believe some men imagine them as women during sex. Let’s get this straight right now. If it has breasts and a dick it is NOT a woman. Until they have had a full operation they are NOT women, and I will not identify them as such until the operation is complete. That’s the way I feel and I won’t argue about it with anyone either. The men who actually prefer trannies like them because they can have it all, and some of them can’t be with another masculine man because they need some feminism in their lives and a masc. man can’t give them that. With these men it’s all about the mix between the two genders.

    It looks like trannies get more dick because I think a lot men lie about what exactly they really want. A majority of men lie about only wanting masculine men. They like fems and trannies, but they lie because they do not want to be ostracized due to the fact that in our community fems and trannies are looked down upon. Don’t you Foxes be surprised if you have been with a man who has slept with one before. I am sure many of you have, and if you all knew they were down with them you wouldn’t give them a chance and they know that.

    1. Since you won’t debate I will leave you with this…

      Having a vagina does NOT make you a woman, it makes you a female just like having dick does not make you a MAN, it makes you a male…

      Im just sayin..

      1. You nailed this on the head, theluckeystar. Gender and gender identity are two different things. A male can biologically impregnate a female or many females; but, it takes a man to responsibly rear and provide for the babies he makes.

      2. It’s the truth. I would not call a woman a mother just because she birth babies a a MAN a father just because he impregnated women.

        My thing is, instead of assuming things. Just ask a transgender woman. Have a conversation with them. Google is your friend.

        Stop being ignorant in 2012…

      3. You guys have kinda got off topic just a bit. I was not talking about responsibility and morals and all that. We can have that convo. another day. We ALL know the difference between boys and men and all that other stuff. I shouldn’t have to breakdown the difference between man and a male in every comment. Ok, if I see a guy walk by am I supposed to say “wow that’s one fine ass male” That doesn’t make sense.

        1. No, no, no, Man, lol. The surgery is very expensive and not every transgender, living as a woman or vice versa, has had the surgery once he or she starts wearing the clothing and living, exclusively, as the opposite sex. So, it’s just showing respect for the individual by using the pronoun that he or she prefers. That’s all.

      4. I don’t think I was off topic. You feel that unless a transgender woman has the surgery (which is uber expensive btw), she is still a man which implies that having a penis makes you a MAN.

        Having a penis definitely does not make you a man.

        Transgender women know they were born a man but but they live their lives as women and should be respect as such just as you would want to be respect for ALL of who you are including being a gay/bisexual man.

        1. Exactly, the overwhelming majority of gay men want, in fact, insist and rightfully so, in being addressed as men, even the brothers who are foxes. Many of them are every bit as masculine as those of us who are wolves. In fact, I’ve conducted a study which has found that the more muscular the brother, the more likely he is to bottom. And, all of us, wolf and fox, would chafe at being called women or out of our names because we enjoy intimacy with each other.

  4. Man:

    Noun
    An adult human male (period).

    Not to fall on either side of the issue, but let’s not make up our own definition for words. Further more, if a man does not take care of responsibility, he’s still a man, just not a good one. Same goes for a mother.

  5. This topic was eye opening in many ways. First of all, I am a little confused because, in my mind, I dont really see them as transgender individuals. Because many of them are not in drag all the time and some just do drag for a little while like it is a phase, of course, I am speaking of entertainers and that is as far as I know about it. I have seen guys who hang around drag queens in the club and they start doing it as well, so its hard for me to really know if they are transgender or just doing something, and I think many gay dudes feel this way and never take them or their feelings seriously. Maybe, I am confused about Drag Queens vs. Transgender. When I first start going out all the guys from the most feminine to the most masculine always told me to steer clear from “dragons” as they call them, because they were shady, nasty and did a lot of illegal shit. I can honestly say, that this stuck with me to this day and I have no trust for them and feel very uncomfortable around them to the point that I would never get to know one. Just being honest. Looking at some of the videos with the them, they still seem shady taping dudes who seem to be oblivious, but hey that’s the price you pay when you call yourself using them for their money and drugs, and end up getting used. I think when we see dudes with linebacker shoulders who put on a wig and lipstick and really make a mockery out of women, that they are not really living life as a female. Again, I see that its many facets to this from dudes who are str8 who cross dress, to transgender to drag queens, honestly, I never took the time to really understand it, but at the end of the day, I can say we all deserve RESPECT, no matter how we live our life.

  6. Frankly, I don’t see transgender people as competition because anyone who is even remotely attracted to them is NOT for me…at all. I still haven’t looked at Sarge the same since he got fucked by that tranny.

    Like The Man said, I’m going to classify you as whatever you look like. I don’t do it intentionally out of disrespect, but I don’t really care either.

    1. Right. I think we all know by now that I’m not going to call something what’s not. A spade is a spade. I don’t live in a fantasy where I pretend to see things differently. I was not raised that way, and I’m sure many of you weren’t either.

  7. I’ll say this.

    I have no more sympathy for transgenders than I have for anyone else. I know being a transgender is hard (I had a good friend a few years back who was a transgender. They put him through hell), but we all have our struggles.

    I don’t see transgenders as competition. To be honest, I don’t see anyone as competition. What would I be competing for? Men? The only thing I compete for is money and pride.

    The men who date transgenders have little to no interest in me. I’m the complete opposite of a transgender. I am a masculine man with muscles. They are not interested in me.

    That said, I don’t really care about transgenders not finding love the same as I don’t care about feminine men not finding it (I can’t tell you how much it annoys me to hear a feminine man complain that men out here only want other masculine men). Why? Because masculine men are having the same issues finding love and being “wanted” as everyone else. It’s not easy for us either.

    The only real issue I have with transgenders is the play on definitions. Whether we like it or not, humans have a need to categorize (it’s scientifically proven. You can research it if you’d like), so wanting to be looked at as an “authentic woman” is NOT going to work. That’s a battle they need to stop trying to fight.

    1. We all have the same issue when it comes to finding love so no one should complain. At some point we will find what we are looking for. It’s not an easy task when everyone is looking for something different. Imagine turning cards face down and flipping one over and trying to find it’s match.

  8. As I said before and some of the comments prove what I said. Some people (including gays) would rather remain ignorant because at the end of the day, they don’t care.

    To some straight people, we are all still faggots, who want nothing more than to have sex with everything that walks and spread AIDS. No matter what they will never change their opinions about us and that is SAD because some of them have people in their family who are gay/bisexual.

    It’s sad that there is still such ignorance in the gender non conforming community.

    Random, I am sure many transgender women and men KNOW that they will NEVER be an authentic woman/man. They know that they are transgender at the end of the day.

    I am going to assume that ‘your friend’ was a FTM because you referred to your friend as ‘him’.

    I guess you have to walk in their shoes to fully understand. I challenge you and the rest of the crew to look up Gender Dysphoria Disorder.

    We forget that not too long ago the thought of being a homosexual was a MENTAL illness.

    In response to what The Man said about ‘being raised’ comment. I am sure your parents did not raise you to a homosexual or to have sexual desires for a man either. I know mines didn’t. My parents DID teach me about RESPECT and tolerance..

    Like I said and I will say it again. It boils down to respect.

    You would not want someone to disrespect you simple because they don’t agree with your lifestyle or gender identity. I bet you would be ready to fight if someone called you a faggot or a sissy.

    This topic is starting to drain me so I will leave it alone.

    Still got love for you guys but I am very disappointed in some of the comments, even though they are your honest opinions.

    1. I don’t think it’s that we don’t care or that we don’t understand the psychology behind being transgender. At least, for myself.

      For me, it’s that I don’t see it as being something to make a big deal about because we ALL have issues and I think you’d be hard pressed to tell someone who hates themselves for WHATEVER reason that transgenders deserve some pronounced acknowledgment of sensitivity. Live your life. None of that shit has to do with me.

      I refer to my friend as “he” because he will always be a boy to me. It took me a long time for me to start calling him by his girl name. But he will never be a “real girl” to me, which is what I was speaking towards earlier.
      If you’re transgendered and that’s how you feel most comfortable, good. I have no problem with that.

      1. And there you have it….

        If I was transgender woman and you kept referring to me as a man, you weren’t really my friend because you are dead set on disrespecting me. Who wants a friend, who continues to disrespect you because of their own personal opinions????

        That’s like a white man calling his black friend a NIGGER or a cyst woman calling her gay friend a fag simply because deep down inside that’s how they feel they should be address.

        It’s not about being a ‘REAL’ girl or boy. It’s about respect and understanding. They don’t HATE themselves, they just feel like they are in the wrong body. Just like you are not attracted to women but men.

        You don’t have to ‘get’ it or like it but at least be man enough to respect one’s wishes as to how they want to be respected.

        It IS a big deal because you may have to run into these people in life. Not to mention, your child or nieces/nephew may be transgender. It hit closer to home than you think.

      2. It’s not about disrespect. You can’t wake up one day and decide you no longer want to be a man and expect everyone to fall in line with that as if they weren’t referring to you as a man just yesterday. As much as you want to be respected, you also have to realize that there is an adjustment.

        More than that, you have to understand that biologically, you are not a woman. No matter how many surgeries you undergo. Lets say your friend, born as female, gets into a physical altercation with a transgendered woman. Would you consider that a fair fight? No. You wouldn’t. Why? Because in the back of your head, you’re still thinking that’s a man with the strength of a man hitting on a woman and that shit ain’t right.

        There is a difference and I’m not going to pretend that there isn’t.

  9. so this essay is all about who gets better /more dick? Aight, the honest answer to that is that it varies. , if you are very pretty and you are a boy, you will get picked faster than any tranny/girl/guy around, the ones who don’t pick u turn it into hate (sigh) and more often than not get too personal and weigh their personal assumptions on you of how u r mean etc withut even ever knowing or ever saying hi to u..sorry before i get carried away n all personal in this…the thing is an overtly PRETTY (not just attractive or even sexy) boy will make even 300% straight guys turn twice. the trannies i think, have realized this and so chase being pretty as opposed to being “effeminate” – gay effeminate men are often obnoxious contradicting what they intend to personify. Chse femininity NOT effeminacy. Even in my dealings with women I let them do the chasing (feminine*, or sit back and expect my good morning text), i dont try to be a woman, i simply harness the X chromosome i have.

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