Is it me,
or am the the only one who thinks 95% of gay men are rude and messy as shit?
It makes no fucking sense to me the attitudes and the whole extra bullshit.
It is sad because you would think that we would be pleasant with each other,
knowing how much we all go through the same struggles.
I find myself just really not wanting to get involved with too many people in the lifestyle.
I keep out these gay clubs and these circles because it is all just messy bullshit.
I am one person who will curse you the fuck out in a nice/nasty way with no hesitation.
I don’t even have to utter one curse word.
I am a master at putting someone in check once they cross that line.
If I am being kind and welcoming with you,
do not take yourself trying to wipe your foot on my back.
I was talking to someone today within the industry,
and they were telling me how messy the gays are behind the ropes.
All the cattiness and the backstabbing… and for what?
To be at the top of a pedestal that you can easily get knocked down off of?
I was looking at some pictures at an event I attended on a social networking site recently,
and two of the biggest queens were going at it.
WHO IS THE BIGGEST MASCULINE QUEEN.
I mean, going the FUCK at it.
Like, someone spat on his mother at church.
Is it that serious?
They were both arguing about who makes most money and has more connects.
Who is the biggest Beyonce fan and who got a better and more expensive wardrobe.
And then confused because people talking about them being gay when then are playing “straight“.
Sadly, their attitudes is what makes them so disgusting.
When I met both of them and they did not know who I was,
one was trying to beat and the other was standoffish.
Now that I have a role and making a name for myself,
the one who is trying to beat is a now bitch,
and the other is trying to be my best friend.
I have made a reputation for myself that I DEMAND RESPECT.
I expect that from my friends, my WOLF, my colleagues, and whoever else.
I don’t care how you treat these other niggas,
but around me you buck up and get your shit together.
I will grab you by the back of your head and:
I also don’t play when it comes to people I am close too either.
I am very protective of people in my circle.
It’s to the point, you HAVE to let people know:
DO. NOT. PLAY. ME.
I’m not saying be hell on wheels,
but you have to have a backbone.
But, it is sad that it is within a community we should we feel safe.
So my question is: