i’d date a white male,
but i wouldn’t turn into “one of those brothas“.
you know the types.
they start dating “white” and completely lose themselves.
that might be where the confidence within myself comes into play.
i don’t switch up with whoever comes into my life.
the truth of the matter is:
Many black gay males get turned out after dating white males.
…which is similar to how straight black males operate with white and “other” vixens.
we really are no different besides the sex and that isn’t even that difference.
a vixen was telling me about an experience with a straight wolf she knows…
the wolf is good friends with a gay male.
he is pretty sexy and charsmatic so i think that helps too.
so his gay friend invited him to a cookout at his crib a couple of weeks ago.
when the straight wolf arrived,
he noticed that all the gays were coupled up with white partners.
the straight wolf is single and dates black vixens.
do you know…
The black gay males were trying to convince him to exclusively date white vixens.
according to them,
white partners were better than black ones.
he said it was like a scene out of the sequel to “get out”.
i guess we can call it “gay out“.
as straight males,
and in my opinion,
i feel they have more power in their dating choices.
they can date whoever and set up shop.
in some instances:
Many gay males don’t have that kind of dating power
…or we CHOOSE not to have that kind of dating power.
so when we meet most gay males,
regardless of race,
we end up settling in fear of being alone.
worst is when we settle for open relationships just to keep the peace.
controversial statement ahead:
Many black gay males are dating their mirror images in the most narcissistic of ways.
whereas i feel straight males date/marry whoever to see where it goes.
i see a lot of “black on black” gay dating on social media,
but in real life,
i see a shit ton of interracial relationships for straight and gay males.
don’t even get me started at some of the black males in corporate.
i’ve seen more interracial couples than anything else.
it was really irresponsible of them in trying to convince him to date strictly white.
that isn’t groundbreaking and some black straight males tend to sell out for white approval.
i don’t have an issue with anyone dating outside their race,
but i do have an issue when they think the other race is better than their own.
you shouldn’t limit yourself because you may find happiness in another neighborhood,
but once you start the switching up like you heard a teacup clink…
…that is when i have an issue.