hello dear jamari…
you have no idea how I love your post and relate to some of the things you do say, knowing that you are more of a fox,helps me to really follow and see the dynamics in this lifestyle, I’m writing to you because,I don’t know what is going on with me, I started my sexual life 2 years ago as a fox,but it feels like I don’tknow if i enjoy the anal sex or not,I know I’m more of a fox since I seen a porn in my life (straight and gay)I knew I was the bottom,but for some reason I feel like I haven’t had “the”sex yet,the type that will make you go crazy even over the person or only his “third leg”.
is it because I’m a bit cynical in my nature that’s why I can’t let go ?
or its just I met awful tops lol?
or should I go for the 100% my type physically?
(because i tend to lose my hard on and getting bored )
let me know what you think
I would like to hear your point of view,
that would help me a lot as a fox (don’t know any around me:-(
have a good day
well thank you for the email and the kind words.
i always knew i was a fox.
from the time i started this life,
i knew i would rather be “face down; tail up”.
i love dominance and aggression.
someone to shake the shit out my disrespectful ass.
i also love when a dominant wolf shows his emotions.
that can be a beautiful thing.
when i watch porn,
i get off to the wolf taking charge.
sliding in and out the fox (or vixen) hole.
nothing about being a wolf or hybrid has ever appealed to me.
when everyone was rushing to the “hybrid” side of things,
i was quiet satisfied in being what i was.
the beauty of this life,
and life itself,
is you have choices.
you can be or do whatever you want.
there should be no judgments in what you want to do.
“no one does straight fox anymore.
i don’t know how people do it.
people like variety.” – them
no one asked you shit.” – me
go and meet a fox.
see how you vibe with him.
how does his submission make you feel?
do you have a natural instinct to be more aggressive?
if you feel an attraction to him,
can you see yourself banging him?
if you do,
and you like it,
then you might just be a hybrid.
if you see him as “one of you”,
then you know you need a wolf to straighten you out.
i feel like in order to have a good situation in this life,
you need to find someone you are 110% attracted too.
many of us settle for being a “1 hitta quitta”.
no one wants to let anyone in the front door to their heart.
its immediately go down to the basement,
head around to the back,
or up the attic.
sometimes all at the same time.
you need to know who you are and what you like.
be able to say it and not care what anyone else thinks.
so many of “us” go trying to be something they aren’t.
who turned fox for another wolf,
but hates getting on all fours for him,
but doing it to not be single anymore”
or how about:
“i’m a hybrid,
but really a fox,
but with another fox,
who is playing a hybrid,
and we are both cheating on each other any wolf that howls”
…and hows that working out for them?
my sammich is good.
whatever you chose to do in this life,
make sure it brings you happiness and you aren’t doing it for a temporary fix.
knowing who you are and what you like makes a world of difference.
hope this helped!