rumor has it,
when a baller wolf has a big game,
the coach stresses that he doesn’t have sex.
as i know that is… hard for some,
all that pent up energy helps them focus on the task ahead.
so if your baller wolf doesn’t want to beat up your guts during the season,
you know the reason why.
it also explains why they end up having all these random cubs.
all that sperm and turkey basters…
i get it now.
well in hearing that,
ive decided something starting tomorrow…
(as you can tell this will be a 18^ and nsfw entry)
i will refrain from jackin’ off for a while
i’m going to try and jackin off like once a week
yes.
i’m serious.
as hard as it will be,
literally,
i need to focus on my goals.
i mean jackin off seems to be my life at this point.
after i come home from this stressful job,
i come home and jack.
i meannnnnnnnn…
a good 4 times.
#highsexdrive
#dontjudgeme
so once i bust these few good nuts,
i am drained and lazy for the rest of the night.
its like a drug addict who gets their hit for the day.
all the ideas i was excited to write about get put on the back burner.
sometimes i’m ready to fall asleep for the whole night.
now don’t get me wrong.
i won’t even play the victim.
on some occasions,
im actually energized and can tackle a few entries.
those are those rare occasions tho.
it has also kept me from being messy on chat sites.
ive been researching this thing called “sexual energy” for a while now.
it claims that when you stop masturbating,
it will help your creative juices to flow.
it also helps attract people to you.
i can honestly say,
when i stopped jackin off,
i was more productive.
i couldn’t last a week,
but i:
wrote good entries
had a ton of energy
went to bed/woke up early
more aware
sexy as hell/could feel the energy vibrate off me
wolves and vixens were checkin’ me out
the problem either cutting it cold turkey or replace with sex.
now its okay to have sex as long as its healthy.
healthy sex with one/two partner(s).
you release the proper endorphins that way.
random sex isn’t really inspiring anyone.
well it inspires us to spend our days trolling on sex sites.
since im not having sex right now,
i don’t have this issue.
i have the terrible “jack off” issue.
so i can harness this sexual energy to get my life back in order.
see “we” have an issue.
we are so focused on finding someone to fuck,
or jackin’ off all day to porn videos,
we aren’t “focused” on the right things like:
education
jobs/careers
living our best lives
networking effectively and putting ourselves out there
its fine to want some dick/ass/both,
but does it have to consume us?
“getting fucked” is usually first,
second,
and third on our daily “to do” list.
like ( x my crush ) from yesterday.
ive come to the conclusion i was/am “sexually attracted” to him.
i can be honest and say i was sexually attracted to all my crushes.
i don’t know if these people are decent human beings.
if they were raised right or got some kind of home training.
all i know is there are usually fine and my body is beyond ready.
the latest crush is not compatible with me in the least,
but the thought of having his cum all over my face…
i can admit,
that once i get the pipe,
i will be pretty much be done with him.
if its already based on “fuckin” in my mind,
it will end once i bust.
the fact i want to conquer him is what turns me on.
plain and simple.
i don’t know him enough to want him in my life.
so while i was contemplating this new idea for my life,
i had to wonder if ive jacked off so much that i’m addicted to it?
why does the thought of not “releasing” give me so much anxiety?
its bad when i’m home and randomly hit up myvidster to see new updates.
its bad enough that even tho i don’t want any diseases,
i have replaced looking for anyone with “23 minutes of pleasure” vids.
i don’t want to spend being okay with that.
being comfortable with crushes and my hands.
noooooooooooooooooooooo good.
so i had to wonder…
Has jackin’ off really been bad for you?
I’ve always heard athletes will go a while not having sex to preform better. For me, it’s almost the opposite. I maybe jack 2-3 times a week. Rarely over 3. I can go a week w/o jackin no problem. I sometimes will wait a week if I know I’m gonna meet up w/ my buddy, so the nutt will be better.
All that being said, if I wait too long… I get reckless. I can’t concentrate on work, instead I’m just tryna find a quick fuck. Most times, I end up fuckin some random from a4a or something, and I feel bad about it afterwards.
It’s better if I nutt at least once a week.
I have another friend, he goes too long w/o busting, he’s just hard to be around. He’s always angry and breaking shit.
Man I was just thinking about this the other day, I used jacking as my “sleep aid” in a way. Im thinking of taking this journey wish you best of luck. ps love your blog been following for years.
Last time I tried I only lasted 2 days…but I’m with you on this journey
This is a very interesting topic. I am also going to accept the challenge and slow down on jackin off too. I know it’s going to be hard ….pun intended… but I’m curious to see if it helps with my focus and attract people to me. I definitely want to redirect my energy into working out and reading more. Jamari you should start a book of the month club 🙂
I tried this before and still trying, but it hard not jacking off. Well I do notice when I am busy then I forget to jerk off, but when I’m at home bored to death or even worst when I’m eating chocolate. Idk why but eating chocolate gets me in the mood and my body said “I need it, I NEEED IT!!!!”
You asking me not to beat? LOL. Don’t know about that. I didn’t do it yesterday tho. I’ll try lol.
I send much love Jamari, but I enjoy it way too much to abstain! I don’t think it’s healthy to not ejaculate, you have to get rid of the excess dead sperm somehow, so if you can’t get rid of it another way, either hand works a treat! Its one of life’s few pleasures that doesn’t cost anything, won’t make you fat, is a real stress buster, and you can do it whenever or however you want!
Signed – The Happy Wanker! 🙂
I’ve been told myself I need to start doing this because I have notice I complain about not having another time to get everything done but I somehow find the time to jack off at least twice a day. I feel like I have to do it before bed so I can just pass out and sleep (sad I know lol.)
I’ve also notice when I don’t touch myself for awhile my skin seems clearer. Odd but I see a difference so I’m try this with you Jamari to see if it helps me get some shit in order.
I heard about it as well. I remember hearing about it in one of my professor’s lectures. I’ll give it a try. Even though I know it won’t be easy. I think it’s not easy for men to abstain from sex because we are sexual creatures.
Good luck and I will commit to this as well, even though I only do it once a week. And I will be checking out those articles as well.
Jamari,
First, let me just say that I think what you are doing speaks volumes about the person you are. You have a very genuine honesty that is not seen as placating or trying to appease. You speak from the heart and I so admire that about you. Now, as far this cease and desist order when it comes to your own self gratification, I like your stance on that. As a fellow fox, I usually pick one day out of the week where I am feeling hormonal and just take matters into my own hands, literally 🙂 and I am good for the rest of the week. Hell, I have even put myself on once a month prescription plans, and it does wonder for the psyche. So I say, YES, I think you should definitely give it a try, and I am sure that you will find a new balance. And just to piggyback on what you said and I quote: “its fine to want some dick/ass/both, but does it have to consume us?” Unquote.
You are absolutely right because I believe it is important to love our own selves, mind, body, and soul. When we do that, then the need for sex with someone else becomes secondary and dare I say OBSOLETE. It’s like I always say, “I don’t need a stick when I already have one to play with.”
^thank you lm.
very kind words.
ALERT:
THIS WONT BE EASY!
you have created a habit of jackin’/random fuckin’.
dont beat yourself up if you fuck up.
when you want to jack off,
go and do something that will benefit you.
work out.
take a walk.
something that will help you focus the sexual energy for something positive.
i also just told myself this LOL
This is true so I’ve heard and you really do feel different. You inspired to me to go for this lifestyle improvement. Whats the side effects? lmao
^ this side effects are a career and power lol
http://www.asianefficiency.com/health/sex-productivity-and-motivation-part-04-sexual-energy-and-transmutation/
^read this.
I’ve read about this before as well. I’ve even tried it for about a week. I will say that I did have more energy and when I finally did jack off, the nut was amazing. However, not getting that release did make me sign onto jack’d a little more than usually. Being horny can make you do some things you just wouldn’t do normally, so you have to have a lot of will power to do this. I say go for it Jamari.
^thanks sam!
i decided i won’t jack off tonight since i feel it manifesting inside me now.
Hmm…I’m going to research this myself, but if the benefits are true it may be worth trying…
^jay i spent the whole day sniffin around this.
i actually liked what i was reading.
i often notice wonder when someone is “sexually attractive”,
if they are using their sexual energy?
it is worth a challenge…
I definitely have a lot of things I need to tend to that I’ve been putting off.
I’m very interested in how it changes your aura and attracts people though.
I think I’ll try it too.
I feel like I have other ways of using that energy like lifting weights.
^read this:
http://www.asianefficiency.com/health/sex-productivity-and-motivation-part-04-sexual-energy-and-transmutation/
this is a pretty good summary.