They Want To See Someone I Use To Know

“aye fam, I’ll put $96 in yo tipjar if you send me a pic of work wolf
If you agree w/ that question answer y or n my guy”

“jamari, who is work wolf? can you give his ig?
or even his first or last name?
i still wanna know what this guy looks like”

“i’ll drop 35 dollars for you if you send me a pic of work wolf”

those are just a few of the dms i get.
ya know it’s funny tho.
if YOU,
you whose reading this right now,
dealt with someone who…

treated you like shit
made you question if you were a good friend or not
lied on you
used you

i wouldn’t want to see what they looked like.
as they’re dead to you,
they’d be dead to me.
some of my real life folks have jackals/hyenas in they’re lives i never saw.
don’t want to either.

“i don’t know her”

my brand of loyalty is different tho.
this applies even if i don’t fuck with you anymore.
another thing,
let’s say i wanted to jeopardize the integrity of all i font about.
i decide to say “fuck it” and want to sell my soul.

96 DOLLARS?
35 DOLLARS?

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…seriously?
i’m insulted my soul is worth such a low ass price.
i think that’s the part that threw me.
960,000 or 350,000 dollars is better numbers to start negotiation.
all money isn’t good money tho.
my worth and the trust of others is more important to me.

i’m not mad tho.
i’m sure everyone wants to see him.
in the famous words of one of my favorite legends:

replace the “her” with “him”.
you should be on that wave too.

20 Comments

  1. R J said:

    I barely want to see the guys I used to deal with especially when they did me wrong.

    January 15, 2018
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    • Jamari Fox said:

      ^exactly.

      i gotta remember not everyone is cut from the same cloth.
      the hardcore foxhole damn near moved on from him before i did LOL

      January 15, 2018
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  2. over it said:

    All facts! I don’t know her (him)! And the nerve of folks trying to see and offer CHUMP change to do so. Who are these pineapples? 🤷🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️

    January 15, 2018
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    • Jamari Fox said:

      ^all anons LOL
      like i don’t see you,
      but you want to see someone i use to know????
      what???

      January 15, 2018
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  3. mikey kun said:

    🤦🏾‍♂️ WTF! Let me write this before I get for work.

    Clearly the Hyenas/Jackels asking that don’t read your blog or know the kind of person they are dealing with. How many times have you said on here that no matter how messy a situation gets with a straight, DL, curious guy that outing that person to others is the lowest thing a gay could do?

    As I have said before lots of us see this blog as a safe haven and I consider you a “friend in my head”. Now while your Wolk Wolf journey was an exciting and realatable one for a lot of people it was also a toxic one for your own heart and metal health.

    You don’t even share your own face on here what makes people think you’re going to show the face of someone else. That situationship you had with him is and has been done for awhile now, people need to let that shit go.

    P.S. maybe I’m reaching here but I don’t want you thinking that those WW posts are the reason most come on here, you’re a talented writer with things that not only touch us but start a lot of conversations on here’s they need to be made. You’ll get to the next level of your career and dreams your way and not being messy ( which I know not in you anyway), as always keep your head up.

    January 15, 2018
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    • Jamari Fox said:

      ^thank you mikey.
      writing about that situation really helped me get through it.
      i don’t even go back to read them as i feel like i was my mental lowest at that point.

      he left my life straight too.
      it would be pretty fucked up for me to even violate by sending his pic out.
      that is the lowest of the low and you know i’m against that.

      January 15, 2018
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  4. DaRealist said:

    This shit is downright disrespectful!! Knowing all that you went through concerning him I wouldn’t even mention him in my comments on this site and ppl are really THIS trifling to asking to see pics or get an IG name?! #GTFOH

    January 15, 2018
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    • Jamari Fox said:

      ^shit,
      lowkey,
      i don’t even know whats happening with him now.
      he is so removed from my life at this point…

      January 15, 2018
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      • DaRealist said:

        I never wish any bad on anybody, even when they’ve done me wrong. I pray he’s somewhere doing good for himsel. With all that he put you through emotionally and mentally he needs to stay removed from your life. You’ve been in such a better place without him

        January 15, 2018
  5. Jammy said:

    Folks these days I tell ya….

    January 15, 2018
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  6. Dignified said:

    Isn’t he so 2016 anyway? lol

    January 15, 2018
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    • tbw said:

      ^^^Exactly.

      January 15, 2018
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  7. Bryan said:

    🙄 Like they ain’t gonna slide in his dms (or hell even comments) & be like “do u know a dude named Jamari?……well he..” you know how it go, Baby we ain’t new gays or trade round here, We ain’t falling for cheap old tricks

    January 15, 2018
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  8. 96 King said:

    Lol was it ever that deep… People really sending you messages trying to get pics of him.

    January 15, 2018
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  9. JajR said:

    I swear people are a trip. Keep moving forward J, and only look back to gather notes, so you won’t commit the same mistake again.

    January 15, 2018
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  10. Dean said:

    Interesting. Reading your posts about you and “Work Wolf” were like riding a roller coaster so I got off that roller coaster and stopped reading your posts involving him considerably before you got off the roller coaster.

    I suspect that only a select few –if any– of the people who you write about in your posts know that you are writing a blog.

    If you were to reveal who “Work Wolf” is, that would be a step closer to revealing who you are.

    January 15, 2018
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  11. The Man said:

    Jamari, you have to be kidding me. Are people that desperate? Y’all are a trip. Y’all want to see a no shit ass dude? GTFOH

    January 15, 2018
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  12. Captain said:

    $96? That’s a random ass number

    January 15, 2018
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  13. JB said:

    You’ve GOT to be shittin me?…people have actually asked u this?…’thafuck wrong with y’all out there?…smdh

    January 15, 2018
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  14. Taylor said:

    One of the main reasons I like and follow you is your stance on outing dudes. As a graduate of Morehouse College, I cannot TELL you how many arguments I had with classmates/schoolmates about outing dudes because they got suckered into being a cum dump.

    The other reason I like and follow you is you are genuine. If they gone offer, the number MUST be in the 6 digit realm with the 1st digit being at least a 7. I mean, relocation and reinvention ain’t cheap 😂🤣 Joking Not Joking…🙄😎

    January 16, 2018
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