DISCLAIMER: I DID NOT SAY THE FOLLOWING.
IT WAS SENT TO ME FROM AN UN-NAMED SOURCE.
i had to get that out the way.

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an f-bi sent me something he dug up today that is pretty interesting.
i thought it was interesting enough to share it with the foxhole.
it looks like it would make for a great discussion…

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FOXMAIL

Scenario: You are half asleep in class and look over your shoulder to see this…

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Jamari, I’m a big fan of your blog. I don’t really comment, but I enjoy the posts. I’ve always read your ‘Ask Jamari’ posts and find myself thinking ‘How do these foxes get into these situations’? I finally came to term that I have my own issues.

Long story short, I’m a discreet fox and I’m struggling to accept that my relationship with my boyfriend/best friend of 6 years is over. This shit is eating me up inside.

We were involved with each other since Senior year of high school, and we’ve been best friends since middle school. I’m 23, so he’s been apart of my life for a long time. We started growing apart during my Sophomore year of college – we both planned on joining fraternities but we never expressed interest in the same organization. He wanted to share in that experience of pledging with him, but I was a legacy of a different organization. I chose to uphold that and pledge my organization of choice on 2009.

Pledging my organization was one of the best personal decisions I aside for myself, and it is an honor to join the ranks of the men in my family. I didn’t realize it would be the beginning of the end for us though. After my probate on campus and spending time with the chapter, he got really distant. We’ve never been a ‘out’ couple (few people know about us) so it was hard to acknowledge his feelings. He always seemed jealous of my experience with my brothers and it affected our relationship. It was worse for him watching me be greek because the organization he wanted to join was suspended until this past August.

He pledged his organization this past Fall Semester. I supported him the entire time, which is something he never did for me. I wanted him to be happy and those processes are difficult. My graduation was in December so I wanted to see him finish. He crossed two weeks before graduation and I was happy. He got something that he wanted so badly and I was proud of him for not quitting.

Jamari. He broke up with me the morning of graduation…two weeks later. He told me that he needed to be seen with women and enjoy the perks of being ‘Greek’. Something he didn’t want me to do after I finished pledging. After all the support that I showed him, he told me that I wasn’t good enough for him. This wasn’t the same guy that I was best friends with, this wasn’t the same guy that I called my boyfriend.

This was almost four months ago and I don’t know how to regroup. I’m working post-graduation so I don’t see him often…but I support events that my chapter throws so I run into him a LOT. I can’t avoid him, but I can’t address my feelings because he won’t allow me to. I really don’t know what to say or do. I can’t talk to my fraternity brothers about it because they don’t know about me or the history of our relationship. I really just needed to vent and advice moving forward. I apologize for this ridiculously long post and I hope you can give me your thoughts.

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I am crushing on this dude. Tell me what you think. His name is Shamar Forte from NY. He is a singer/model with a decent voice and sexy as shit. Check his site http://shamarforte.com/

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Ok so there is this guy that goes to my school, and he is very handsome, and we are cool, we speak to each other all the time when we speak or smile, but he is talks to alot of girls, I think he might be BI or Gay..He has a son though and again he is flirtatious with girl, but i’m trying to figure out if he is gay, how do I approach him and ask him, I dont want to come off as thirsty or anything what do you think? how should I go about this should I be flirtatious to him or should I leave it alone, please help!

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Hey Jamari!

Hope all is well. I wrote you about a month ago asking how to score a wolf in the city. Well there was a prospect, army guy, but it completly took me by surprise and fell through the roof. This is a guy who I’ve went to H.S school with for three years. I NEVER IN A MILLION YEARS thought of him as gay, bi. Non of that. I thought he was as straight as you could get. Little did I know he was interested in me and hit me up telling me he liked me and respected me, and basically was givinng me hints without saying HE WANTED TO FUCK! So I invite him over my crib but his dad reads his messgaes and HE’S OUTTED. I didn’t out him he outted himself. But I wasn’t that interested in him anyways. He was too little for me! Lol with that being said, I am still on the prowl searching for the right guy.

So Jamari this is where YOU come in.I’ve know this other wolf for four years now. We went to H.S together as well. He’s always been on my gaydar, I’ve just always seen something feminine about him. We’ve always been cool, and when it’s just me and him, he is a good friend. But when we were our other friends (especially guys) he would tease me about my voice and my weight and things of that sort. But I know he didnt mean them even though sometimes his words bothered me. So with that being said, when people weren’t looking he would squeeze my butt. And do alot of sexual things to me. But he “plays gays” alot and I still thought he was straight, so it made me hesitant to approach him.

So long story short, he sells weed, and I told him last week I coming through to his crib and we going to smoke. I’m buying it for us to smoke, something I don’t normally do. We’ve been texting through out the week on which day were going to do it and finally decided on Wednesday. So my question(s) to you is:

-How do I get him to know, I’m down to fuck?
-Do you think he’s expecting me to give him some ass?
-And how do I seduce him (let him know I want him) without looking OBVIOUS or anxious, or looking like the stupid gay guy in the end?

He fucks a lot of girls so Idk if if he’s a straight wolf/dl/bi or whatever, but I want to officially find out on Wednesday. What should I do? What should I wear?

Let me know EVERYTHING JAMARI! Lol.

Thanks and Love you.

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