personality vs character

When i first met “insert dumb bitch here“,
i loved her personality
.
I thought she was absolutely amazing.
We related on the same things and it felt like she embraced me.
She felt like a someone i use to know
and THAT should have been my first clue.
As we became cool,
I started to notice something that gave me pause.
She would always talk about mutual friends behind their backs.
One of her friends was trying to start a career and she legit dogged them out.
In that same friend’s face tho,
She was all smiles and acting like she was in full support.
People never realize I peep the little “big” things about them.

I wasn’t surprised when i found out she was talking about me with the same people.

character.
oftentimes,
we can get confused with personality rather than character.
anyone can have a amazing personalities out here.
it’s how we introduce ourselves to people to make friends or gain networks.
it can lead to a ton of followers and even stardom but…

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will smith is going to be murdering that random’s bank account with a lawsuit

i had a feeling will smith wasn’t going to let this slide.
maybe it was the wording?

“HE WAS IN THERE KILLING HIM,
STRAIGHT MURDERING HIM.”

i’d imagine hearing an opp say something so vile would get you tight.
so will’s rep has ( x denied all allegations of the hole destruction ).
duane martin allegedly won’t ( x be speaking about it ).
jada pinkett-smith tho?
you know she was gonna say something cause you already know…

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mi amor, you’re such a bore (do something interesting before i snore)

that title thoooo?
bars.

so i fonted in a past entry that outside of marvin bienaime shoots,
 charlie is kinda boring.
i mean when you look as good as him,
it’s typical to not be interesting.
you’re either arm candy,
get passes through life/jobs,
or used to breed.
#respectfully
honestly,
i thought that he was just “mysterious” and that created “the fantasy” in my head.
thanks to charlie being on “love island usa“:

He is really just boring and dry.

he is not made for reality tv.
thats the conversation while he has been on the show.
voting one of the popular sistas off the island,
along with coupling up with a white vixen he has no chemistry with,
didn’t seem to help him much either.


it made me wonder something tho…

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jussie smollett only wants his coffee dark on “empire”

jussie smollett is my guy.
dare i font,
he seems like he’d make a good hubby too.

well jussie was approached about having a white love interest on “empire”.
this was his response on the “the clay cane show” via “the huffington post”
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Character and Other Dishonest Things To Look Out For

character.
they say your character is who you really are.
you can change your personality,
but your character will stay with you until you die.
so that means if you’re a:

liar
cheater
thief
sex addict

killer
rapist
pedophile

…then those traits ain’t going nowhere.
that is interesting to me.
so what are all these self help books for?
to just change your personality?
or with hard work and dedication

Can you actually change your character flaws?

hmm…
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It’s Not Me; It’s You (Your Character Just Simply Sucks)

tumblr_mkdc5ak3th1s4yxbzo1_500i’m up.
i been up since 3am.
i had some stuff on my mind.
i have the internet paper,
so time to allow my fingers to release it…
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