attentionistos.
i get it.
you wanna be:

models
actors
rappers
personal trainers
nba baller wolves

…and whatever dreams you have.
i have dreams too,
but i still work a day job as i’m pursuing my goals.
so a foxholer sent me a dm he got from an attentionisto.
this is what he had to font…

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that use to be me.
not as bad now,
but i have my moments.
i was doing some thinking today foxhole.
i’m always thinking,
but i came to the conclusion…
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remember when george hill was “that attentionisto”?
like,
remember he was the one everyone wanted to fuck?
well i saw the latest on my tumblr feed and…
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foxholers always ask me,
especially on the ig foxhole:

“Why don’t you ever tag names on your posts?”

in a perfect world,
i’d love to spread the “this is who this is” love.
in return,
they’d show me love and we’d live in a forest of peace,
harmony,
and promotional networking.
this ain’t a perfect world tho.
98% of these males don’t even say “thank you”.
the only time i hear from them is:

“I GOOGLED MYSELF AND SAW YOUR ENTRIES ON ME!”

…which leads into the email i got this morning…

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FOXMAIL

Hey Jamari,

I hope everything is going great.  I recently turned 28 years old (I feel so “out of place” with everything sometimes–social media and even things that trending).

Sex: I have smashing (or being smashed) for years. I guess I’m a pro lol and that makes me a “hybrid”.  However, I always wanted to know if I had “good booty”. I make sure that it’s CLEAN and smooth. I don’t get fucked often like I wanted or as frequently lol. The “trade” always say “you creaming” or “that’s some good shit”.  I guess I always self-doubting myself because I always think they say that to all the other foxes. As far as my “manhood” the girls always that its big cuz they see the print. But I think it’s average. Even in bed, they can’t take it ( that what they say). I guess I have become very insecure about my sex life/game.  It seems that with social media, that everyone is banged out and I’m behind the curve.

I don’t know how to feel. I guess the lack of sex and interaction of dating has made me feel unattractive.  I shouldn’t compare myself to the guys on Instagram, etc; however, those the guys I want to date and become.  I should be happy that I’m alive and happy.  What do you think?

Love the blog, keep it up.  The FOXHOLE loves you!!!

MY ANSWER…

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i need the work out attentionistos to do the following:

work out
shut up
thirst trap

i don’t need to hear them “think”,
let alone give an opinion.
^that attentionisto who does by @royal_mcmxciii has an opinion.
an opinion about gays/bi sliding in his dms.
he posted this on his ig via a f-bi…
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