26 thoughts on “Soooooo Have You Smashed “Huge12” from Off Adam4Adam?”

1. The Man, you are mistaken and apparently full of self-importance and a hot head. If you will look at the placement of my comment about picky/nitpicky dudes, you will see that the placement indicates that it was a “new,” “general” comment and not directed at any of your comments directly. You will also not that above when I wrote a comment directed at Tajan and I mentioned his name in my comment. If I want to direct a comment to someone in particular, I typically mention his name–as is appropriate.

   Now that I have established that my comments were not directed at you or anything that you wrote–directly (And it’s unlikely that I though of you or your comments when I made my comments.)– let me state again that all too often gay men are too picky/nitpicky (and see the examples that I gave). I see that sort of pickyness/nitpickyness often. Again, the most important thing about the dick, ass, face or body is the man attached to it!

   The Man, I won’t address the other comments that you made which show your arrogance and your apparent feeling of importance other than to list them (“Is that you in the pic? Or did I hit a nerve? If not, then why in the hell are you offended? Who I find attractive is my damn business, not yours. If I am not attracted to him, I am not attracted to him. . . .I am only 20, my life is pretty much just beginning, so I haven’t even had the time to “nitpick” as you call it. You haven’t been on here that long, but I am going to school you on who I am. Here is what you fail to understand, I am in charge of my own destiny, and I am in control of whether I am in a relationship or not, so I hold all the cards. I can have any man I chose dude, including you, your man or whoever else because I am just that damn powerful inside and out. No, I am not cocky, just confident. People love me for that. Point is, if you gonna try and come for me and try to make out who I am, check the archives, read my comments and get your facts straight. You tried it. Now take a seat dude.”) Before you accuse some one of trying to “come for” you, you might deflate your ego and notice that you were not thought of when he made his comments. By the way, I did “come for” you in this comment. You can tell by the fact that I addressed you directly–twice.

   1. Have you heard of subliminal messages? Not directly referring to an object/person etc but it is obvious that you are. Oh not to mention you could have placed the comment in the wrong place, it was actually under Chase’s comment. Read this line you wrote; “There are guys here who mock/downplay his attractiveness.” Who were you referring to when you said that? You were directing that comment to the ones on this blog who mocked him, me being one of them. Then you went on a rant to make matters worse. You were referring to the ones who deemed dude as unattractive without stating it directly man, stop it. It is 2014, people know when you are talking to them whether you state their names or not. People do that here quite often, you don’t have to state a name or directly comment under a name for a person to know you are referring to them. There was no reason for you to say that if you weren’t directing the ones who called him unattractive. If no one ever called him unattractive, that comment of yours would not made sense. Stop playing yourself. Don’t try and clean it up after I said something. Me calling you out does not make me a hot head either, it just means I do not tolerate bull and I stand up for what is right. I am done good night.

      1. The Man, you are again being arrogant, mistaken and full of self-importance. I said that my comment was “a “new,” “general” comment and not directed at any of your comments directly.” And that is true. That, of course, means that my comment may have been directed at your comments indirectly. That truth is that I read the comments (including yours) that had been previously posted and that my comments were not directed towards anyone comments directly but I was well aware that someone or someones had commented on “the robbers” looks. There is a difference between direct and indirect. I suggest that you learn the difference. (Hint: One is not called subliminal.)

         Further, your comment, which was directed to me, made some comment/reference about my directing my nitpicky comments to you. You should also know that comments about “the robbers” looks are not the same as comments about guys being nitpicky. There is no logical connection –except the fact that I chose to segue from the “the robbers” looks to looks and other nitpicky/picky requirements of guys–which you unwisely chose to take as a comment about you.

         The Man, it’s clear to anyone reading my and your comments that 1. you are arrogant, mistaken and full of self-importance. 2. There is a difference between directly/direct and indirectly/indirect 3. Everything is not always all about you at all times.

         The Man, please be advised that I have been formally and rigorously trained in the arts of logic, writing and rhetoric. And I have years of practice in those arts. From your writings, it appears that you have not had such training or practice. Accordingly, you should quit while you’re behind. I have nothing but good-will toward the fellow readers of and posters to this web site. Best Wishes.

2. I aint gone knock no one for going on these chat sites, that is just the way that gay men interact in 2014 its the reality, no one goes out anymore to clubs and if you are not the house party list it may the only way some people can connect especially in a small town, with that being said you should always meet in a public place and have a couple of dates first IMO but I know many of yall are hot in the ass so you take a chance letting strangers in your house. If you do let someone over your place you need to hint to them that you will kick ass if they get out of line and talk about your love of guns etc, and have some type of weapon handy in case something gets out of hand in your house. Im dead serious, a bat, pipe, gun, knife and dont be scared to use them if someone gets out of hand. Personally this chap lip thieving bastard does nothing for me but hey to each his own lol.

   1. Tajan is right. Meeting and hooking up online is an integral part of modern gay and straight culture. And shit meeting guys in person first is no guarantee of safety. Jeffrey Dahmer met guys in bars and took them home and ate them put the rest in the freezer! Looks can be deceiving. I have enough friends online now that I cross reference dudes I meet online. Plus the black gay world is small…everybody knows everybody. My friends will tell me oftentimes if a prospect is nice, has fake pics, or is a crackhead who will steal. As far as Hung12 I peeped his profile on A4A. He is a nice looking brother but no face pic and his grammar and spelling is horrendous which is always a red flag. All he shows is a pic of a big dick. He claims he has 12.5 inches and can bring a buddy with more than 10. That is perfect bait for size queens (often unattractive older white men) looking for the real life versions of the dildos they use. I have a pretty big dick and get hit up on by these types at least twice daily. Advice: If something looks too good to be true it usually is.

   2. Tajan, come now: “If you do let someone over your place you need to hint to them that you will kick ass if they get out of line and talk about your love of guns etc, and have some type of weapon handy in case something gets out of hand in your house. Im dead serious, a bat, pipe, gun, knife and dont be scared to use them if someone gets out of hand.” If I spoke to such a person, I’d figure that he was a gun nut and that he might shoot me and it would be time to end the conversation. I’d run! Victimizing someone that you meet on line is often stupid. The website has a record of communications that law enforcement authorities can get and the phone company has a record that law enforcement authorities can get. For safety, consider letting a friend know who you met and what is planned to happen: “Bigdickandtightass from Adam4Adam is coming to my place at 4 pm. His name is John and his number is 123-456-7890. I’ll call you when he leaves.” Of course, meeting someone on neutral grounds or in a public place is not fool proof.

3. Not gonna lie.I’d be straight robbed because that dude is attractive to me.Yeah he needs some chap-stick but that’s it.I’d think I hit the jackpot if I was meeting with him.That’s how bad it is where I live.

   1. Jackpot? Dude is basic, sorry. How bad is it where you live? Do you live in Maine with Lindo? LOL I am just asking lol.

      See that fine dark specimen Jamari has posted on the right of your screen? That’s JJ James, now he’s the jackpot. However, if he was online he wouldn’t have me acting a fool because I would be suspicious that a man that looks like him is online. That is a red flag right there. I bet you all would be ready to let a man that fine in your house huh?

      1. My situation is similar to Lindo’s.

   2. Good looking guys are a dime a dozen. The guy in the A4A profile is attractive and in need of Chapstick but that’s all. The most important thing about the dick, ass, looks or body of a man is the man attached to it. There are guys here who mock/downplay his attractiveness. Unfortunately, many gay men nitpick their way to no relationship. No matter the man, there’s always something wrong with him: “He’s not a dime. I need a dime.” “He should call me back when he spends six months at the gym.” “The sex with him was not good enough. He can’t put it down.” “He has a small dick. He only has 7 inches and I need at least 10.” or “He’s 40 and my cut off age is 35.” They nitpick their way to no relationship with men who are 80%-95% of what they want, and they cry that they want a relationship but they insist on the 100% or the 110% (The perfect man.) And when they can’t find the perfect man, they bitch, moan and complain that the “right” man doesn’t exist. But they have meet Mr. Right and turned him down many times with their nitpicking. They are waiting for Mr. Perfect and insist on Mr. Perfect but since they are far from perfect, if Mr. Perfect met them, he wouldn’t want them. What foolishness. Go figure!

      1. Is that you in the pic? Or did I hit a nerve? If not, then why in the hell are you offended? Who I find attractive is my damn business, not yours. If I am not attracted to him, I am not attracted to him. Mr. Perfect? People who have read my comments on here know I am not picky, and am rarely not attracted to guys Jamari posts. In a lot of cases, I am the only one who is attracted to a guy. Another thing, I am a Wolf(top), we usually are not the ones complaining about being lonely and all that bullshit either, you tried it on that. I am only 20, my life is pretty much just beginning, so I haven’t even had the time to “nitpick” as you call it. You haven’t been on here that long, but I am going to school you on who I am. Here is what you fail to understand, I am in charge of my own destiny, and I am in control of whether I am in a relationship or not, so I hold all the cards. I can have any man I chose dude, including you, your man or whoever else because I am just that damn powerful inside and out. No, I am not cocky, just confident. People love me for that. Point is, if you gonna try and come for me and try to make out who I am, check the archives, read my comments and get your facts straight. You tried it. Now take a seat dude.

4. Stay off chat sites. I was watching this new show on ID called Web of Lies. This woman met this man on match dot com, and he nearly killed her. He stabbed her several times and stepped on her head over and over. He killed his ex girlfriend too….who he also met online. SMH.

   Adam4Adam and Jack’d will be the death of gay men in the future, watch what I tell you. You heard it here first.

   1. WOW I wonder if she can sue Match.com?

      1. Just googled it she sued Match.com for $10 million

      2. Damn, that is a lot of bread. She deserves justice, him being in prison isn’t enough.

      3. ^how could she sue match tho?
         do they have a screening process or something?

      4. I see where she filed lawsuit I dont know if it went to trial yet or if there was a settlement.Also the guy killed himself in jail

   2. I wanna know something. Why do you all engage in chat sites? I am curious.

      Loneliness?
      Desperate for a man?
      Need for dick/ass?
      Companionship?
      Love?

      How are you guys going to find love when you are putting yourself at risk? Like the 71 year old we previously talked about. He probably thought he was going to get a train ran on that saggy ass, but he ended up dying a horrible death.

      1. ^hell remember the cute one i posted who robbed that dude for his computer?
         THEN gonna tell dude to pay him a ransom for the computer.
         the world is getting so evil now.
         jackals smartened up now and know how to get people with two things they can’t resist: sex and companionship.

5. I guess he thought the victims wouldnt contact police because of where he met them.

   Jamari, you can punish me later for going off topic but check of the pic Kerry Rhodes just posted on IG:)

   1. ^i just saw it…
      i luh-eded him lol

6. and this is why nowadays i’m skeptical of meeting people especially men on a4a or bgclive. it’s crazy how these men are really get robbed, or raped and etc..smdh i can’t i guess i’ll be celibate forever then lol

7. He’s an attractive man with the need for some chapstick. I did check A4A and the profile is still there.

   1. ….add the word THIEF to that description and that’ll sum his bitch ass up!!!!!!

      1. LOL

8. Quite frankly, I doubt the face photo was their incentive…where’s the rest of his “profile”…?

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