So Now You Check Up On Me (Oh.)

airmail+cards2a familiar name just popped up in my unread mail.
btw – ( x airmail ) is the bomb.com.
okay back to the point.
it familiar name was from my old boss.
it goes…
“hi jamari.
hope all is well.
i haven’t heard from you.
how are you?”

um haven’t heard from me?
wtf?…

Whateveri haven’t heard from him since i went back that second time.
that was last year.
he hasn’t reached out to me up until now.
should i respond to this email?
what would i even say?
i’m really not interested in the convo tbh.
when i’m done wrong,
i just let you go and move on with my life.
a big side of me is saying,
“hell naw.
send that shit to your spam folder”.
i thought id ask how you would handle it.

14 Comments

  1. Answer it just and see whats good. Then back to spam

    November 11, 2013
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    • Jamari Fox said:

      ^lol
      the classic:

      “oh he ain’t talking about nothing?
      bye bye”

      November 11, 2013
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      • Hov said:

        Im glad you do have this blog as a secret and Im not even judging Im being real you dont need to blog you need a life-coach, tact, etiquette, culture, and some more stuff Im not even finding it funny anymore. I really just dont think you know any better

        November 12, 2013
  2. Lindo said:

    I have somewhat a similar situation. It been a year we haven’t spoke and he stop talking for no reason, but we start chatting up again and guess what? Now he stop chatting me again and is ignoring me. So don’t waste your precious time with him.

    November 11, 2013
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  3. Old Head said:

    Hey Jamari, glad I happened to check email just now. I’m literally standing on a sidewalk on my iPhone; that’s how important I think this is.

    I would offer that you respond. This is not coming from a former piece or ex-lover; it’s coming from a former boss and you need a job like yesterday. Swallow pride, let him know you are still not working. Hopefully, he’s calling about a job back at the company or he is aware of an opening somewhere else.

    In politics we have a saying: no permanent friends, just permanent interests. Right now, your interest in landing some income. You don’t have to like him; just be professional, show zero attitude. And, if an offer is made, accept and laugh all the way to the bank. You may still look, discreetly, for other things.

    This is my two cents; at least, give it some thought.

    November 11, 2013
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    • Jamari Fox said:

      ^thank you oh.
      ill send him a message tomorrow.
      gives me some time to figure out a good response.
      tonight I might say the wrong thing.

      November 11, 2013
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    • mikey kun said:

      This is the best answer here.

      November 11, 2013
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    • gucciblk said:

      I agree with OLD HEAD.

      November 11, 2013
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    • AtlAnonymous said:

      VERY good advice. Couldn’t have said it better myself. Please respond to him asap J. You never know… 🙂

      November 11, 2013
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    • The Man said:

      I agree.

      November 11, 2013
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  4. Jamari Fox said:

    thanks everyone for the responses.
    will update everyone tomorrow once i send.

    November 11, 2013
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  5. Tyson said:

    I agree also

    November 11, 2013
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  6. Ziah said:

    Good advice Old Head.. well said…

    November 12, 2013
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Play nice, stay on topic, and for the love of God: NO SPAM IN THE FOXHOLE!