after all this fuckin and suckin we do,
when we meet someone we’re 100% attracted to,
we want to show him why we’d would make a good boyfriend.
that is the end game,
do you plan on just being a sex addict all your life?
we all want love.
and something to finally stick on the wall.
not our inner walls,
but you get the picture.
a vix-bi sent me the following facebook status message.
this is what one vixen would do to keep her wolf satisfied…
i want to laugh,
but i won’t.
coming from someone who USE to be like that to males,
i’m here to tell you that is THE WRONG MOVE.
i am even dragging myself.
now that i’ve seen the light,
i can honestly say that’s “THE STUPID BITCH” movement.
doing all that comes from a place of lack.
we aren’t use to relationships so we do all these “fantasy” things to be chose.
that’s not being his “teammate” or “someone who holds him down”.
that is being his “mother”.
no red blooded male wants to fuck his mother.
males want to fuck the hoe tho.
they want to fuck the hoe that makes him feel great and powerful.
he wants to feel like his pipe tastes the best and feels the best.
a male wants to feel like a male.
“fill out job applications when he is sleep…”
“set up a bank account to save to get him on his paws…”
“planning things to keep him out the streets…”
“the one that will make you go from nothing to something…”
doing all that she proposed emasculates males.
we will secretly start to resent anyone who makes us feel less than.
when i was doing all that,
i would feel hurt because i’d get pushed to the side for someone else.
i was building him up for the ones he actually really desired.
usually a vixen OR some male with nothing going for themselves.
like attracts like
water seeks it’s own level
sexuality won’t bend in your favor because you act like the perfect gay/bi
i was making weak males feel like their dicks were made of platinum.
my dick/foxhole is made of platinum and wanted the same in another.
so they would leave me in the dust once “the one in their eyes” showed up.
when those situation didn’t worked out,
and they always never did,
they would come back and be “my bestest” again.
rinse and repeat until i’m ghosted again.
as soon as the right one comes along,
he will dump that doormat for the one of his DREAMS.
he isn’t going to be attracted to us because we damn near babied him.
he will do everything we taught him and take it to the next.
as a gay male,
who use to be a doormat,
i’ve learned to not pamper any other male into being “the one”.
everything should flow naturally when you connecting with someone.
you can IMPROVE your boyfriend,
but you don’t BUILD him.
anyone who you aren’t officially dating shouldn’t get more than good company.
i might even font to deal with a male who already got/getting their shit together.
a lot of these males got severe mommy and daddy issues.
if you have to do that,
he ain’t the one.
lowkey: this also goes for wolves too.