First of all congrats on the job. I just found one myself. Ain’t God good? Anyway, i recently met this down low guy. We met online. He is very much in the closet. Has a girl friend. You know the type. He is definitely one of those undetectable types. He’s brown skin, got a nice body, tats, hood swag, everything I like. We’ve only texted since the first time we met and I think he is really interested. We are supposed to get together this weekend and will probably have sex. I want to let him know I like him and try to get him to open up. But he’s so private.
How can I put him at ease and let him know that he can trust me?
lets dive right into this one,
“he is very much in the closet”
“has a girlfriend”
aside from those 2 red flags,
he sounds like someone i would definitely would to let beat.
the way i have always dealt with d/l wolf,
ones who looks like that,
is i let them come to me.
i went with the flow.
he was private because he wants to be in control.
you already know what you are gonna get with this wolf.
you and him will probably meet up and fuck.
its not like he hit you up to talk about his international studies class.
you made his dick hard and he is expecting you to pull out whats waiting inside.
if you try and pull away however,
start acting like some kind of “friend”,
it will probably break the spell because it will come off obvious.
he trusts you right now because you promised him sex.
that card is on the table.
you can’t pick it up.
he won’t show his other cards until he sees you in person and feels you out.
(what if in person you don’t like him?
what if he can’t fuck?
what if his dick is small?
what if it smells like rotten gooda?)
just asking before we crown him “a winner”.
anyway he is going to be private because he doesn’t know who you are.
you’re still a stranger who could out him.
after you let him beat,
you just have to see what happens.
so from now until this weekend,
if you want to try something,
just hit him up to say wassup and see if he is open for convo.
try to figure out his schedule when he texts more.
keep the convo light.
be a blip on his radar.
try to keep the sexual shit at a minimum,
but if he brings it up,
just go with it and do your damnedest to turn him on.
this is a hook up in his eyes.
after this weekend,
once you successfully drained his nut sack,
he may probably keep coming to you for more sex.
after all he is d/l and that’s how they work.
the way to lull the great d/l wolf is to let him know you:
can be trusted with his secrets
available when he is horny
don’t act like a clingy vixen
the rules of being a jumpoff in any sexual orientation really.
so that’s pretty much it.
so make sure you put him to work as he will with you.
put in your mind from now
that he could still never text back
after he gets the bunz
congrats on the new gig btw!
have fun and use protection!