Everyone has a different experience in this lifestyle.
Some of us can walk out the door and start sucking a dick by the time you turn a corner.
Others meet Wolves once we get them comfortable.
A majority however are not meeting anyone.
It is what it is, ya know?
I believe it is all in your season.
At that time, you are you most confident and your sex appeal is highest.
Sometimes, a nigga is just having an OFF moment.
But, what happens when you meet a Wolf you think gets down and he is slowly going about the connection?
You know that wack “I’m really undressing you with my eyes” bullshit.
How do you successfully get him out his fur?
And, would he ever come out?
I had to wonder…
How do you rescue the Wolf who is trapped in his own closet,
but trying to get into yours?
Imagine this being your homeboy:
Ya’ll met on some random shit.
You been crushing on him ever since ya’ll met and been cool.
He has been giving you signs that he may get down.
Ya know, the eye contact lasts a lot longer.
The touches in places that are forbidden to straight Wolves.
The infamous “treating you like you are his girlfriend” act.
He is more than comfortable with getting half naked in front of you.
You know, “THE BULLSHIT“.
You tell a close homeboy, who is also gay, about him in a quick vent session.
More like he is making you horny and jackin off just ain’t cutting it no mo!
He tells you to just tell him that you like him.
You go ahead and do it and….
Wolf tells you that he is flattered, but he isn’t gay.
This all follows by a swift curve.
He proceeds to cut you off and ignore you.
It was all good bout a week ago…
The is the same story with these Wolves/Foxes/Hybrids who are trapped in the closet.
They are curious and are attracted to you, but they do not want to accept the feelings they are feeling.
It is okay baby.
I been there too.
Ima need your whole hand to NOT travel down my horny back in your accepting process though…
I have learned a trick in this whole process I’m about to share with you guys…
The art is to make them as comfortable as possible.
That means you need to play “The Nice Fox/Hybrid/or Wolf“.
So PLEASE lose that funky ass attitude and be nice.
This is new to him so you need to make him feel like you are there for him.
As he low key flirts with you, you do it INDIRECTLY.
NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER BE DIRECT.
Being DIRECT only works for Wolves who have been running in this lifestyle HEAVY.
Just be his friend and relax.
I know you want him that you can taste it, but there is a process to this.
I learned that lesson with Rapper Wolf and that whole mess.
Life is not like a Noah’s Arc script.
And even Noah had to make Wade comfortable before he felt the whole penis.
But realistically, how long does it take for this muthafucka to get comfortable?
He could get married, have kids, and then at 55 talk about he wants that.
Are you willing to wait long?
I sure to hell WON’T.
His money will be funny at that point.
My love is up for the highest bidder and once the auction is over,
I’m gone forever.
I don’t want to hear you in the future talking about, “Boo I’m ready for you!”
Ummmm…. you better get off my property with that bullshit before my BOO come home and shoot you.
AND GOD FORBID YOU SPEND ALL THAT TIME WAITING AND THEY WANT TO GET FUCKED..
AND YOU ARE A FOX…
OR THEY ARE A WOLF…
AND THEY WANT YOUR WOLF TAIL!
So I’m willing to ask you all who are playing the waiting game with “one of them“…