ya know,
often times i feel like very invisible.
like,
 no one tries to get at me.
it can feel like you are unwanted and lonely,
but i see i’m not the only one going through it.
ej johnson,
magic johnson’s son,
shared how dating as a gay male in his life is difficult.
this is what he had to say via “the daily mail”…
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there is a darker skinned vixen i know who bagged a fine light wolf at a past job.
i mean,
he was fine.
muscular and looked like he should have had over 10k followers on his ig.
the crazy part is he fucked and slandered his clone,
a light skin vixen with #bawdygoals,
but the darker skinned vixen had him hooked.
she wasn’t even all that attractive,
nor did she have a bawdy all like that.
she had a way with words and her swagg was insane.
this was a few years ago,
but i think they’re still together.
maybe,
it’s different with the straights?
in this life of gays,
i’ve seen all kinds of “mismatches”,
but i’ve also seen clones of one self in dating.
they both pretty much look the same.
i saw the following scroll down my twitter today.
it led to an interesting discussion…

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as of late,
i’ve been seeing some of the sexiest white wolves.
in the forests,
in my office,
and on my tv:

aside from my cousin hybrid,
who has dated and swore off white males,
i don’t really know anyone else who has dated one.
i was having a convo with one of the foxholers in ig dms today.
the topic of him dating a white hybrid came up.
i asked him if i could post his experience for the foxhole.
he was down for it and this is what he said…
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so i was having a conversation the other day and it made me go heavy on the eye roll.
for some odd reason last week,
i kept seeing the sexiest wolves everywhere.
it put me in my feelings because my phone is dry af right now.
so i said:

“have you ever felt like the people you are attracted to don’t look at you?
like,
do they ever feel invisible?”

so they responded:

“your problem is you’re looking at too much good looking males.
you need to deal with someone who might not be physically attractive,
but likes you.“

^that is where i eye rolled.
it’s funny coming from them tho because they settled.
a few week ago i was hearing an earful about someone that “liked them for them”.
it turned out that he was a demon from the depths of hell.
foxhole,
ima font you like this…

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something told me to font the following.
it could be for one foxholer or maybe 20.
i don’t know who needs it,
but i had to learn it for my own life as well…

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photo credit: akm-gsi-xposure

so as you know,
or didn’t,
but ^that is donald glover’s wife.
she is definitely not black and for some,
she doesn’t match his “woke” stance.
during an interview with blogzilla for the new star wars movie,
he asked donald this question:

…and this is what he responded with:

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