Is Your “True Self” Keeping You Single?

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i had an interesting discussion with a pastor this morning.
a pastor that also happens to be on the dl,
or so he thinks.
we met a few years ago and kept in touch ever so often.
he has been low key attracted to me,
but i would never.
ever.
everrrrrrr consider it.
that is code word for:

he got way too much going on

well the discussion was being yourself when looking for love…
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They Only Tolerate You Until You Confirm You’re Gay

tumblr_n13jm1R5i01sxcpxoo1_500don’t say it.
yes,
you read me right.
don’t you dare say it.
don’t let those straight wolves know you are gay.
you may be dressing them,
cooking for em,
rescued their cat from a tree,
paid for their trip to the circus,
and they know you ain’t dating no vixen…
well…
they liked you before.
they may have thought you were “different”,
but as soon as you confirm your sexuality,
they’ll be out and slam the door behind them.
suddenly they think you secretly been plottin’ on them.
EVEN IF THEY ARE UGLY AS SIN!!!
like,
get over yourself.
a foxhole sent me these tweets about deray today.
it contained opinions about his sexuality from straight wolves…

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DeRay Is Not His “Hair” (Replace Hair)

IMG_6627everyone meet deray mckesson.
he is a black activist wolf.
his resume lists him as:

american civil rights activist
educator
politician
member of the “black lives matter” movement

he is an active crusader for black rights and justice.
the issue is…
well you may have already guessed it.
so a vix-bi sent me this foxmail today and i couldn’t help but wonder…
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