what would an evolved you with no trauma or hurt be like right now?

my therapist asked me something yesterday that i’m still thinking about.
it’s interesting how a simple mind trick could possibly change your life.
so during our session,
she posed this question to me…

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what do you do when the huzzband hits on you? (a question)

I GOT A QUESTION FOR THE FOXHOLE.
i don’t know why i started out with all caps.
anyhoo,
check it below the break…

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what does your “you hurt me but i bounced back better” look like?

in life,
we will have people who have done us wrong.
for many of us,
we worked our asses off to become who we are now.
whether it is a successful career,
a massive glo’up,
or both,
we use that revenge from hurt to fuel us into being better.
i have a question for the foxhole,
and i hope it doesn’t come off ignorant but…

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remember when ballads would make or break someone’s singing career?

as a millennial,
we could not avoid ballads growing up.
omg,
remember when they would play “my heart will go on” EVERYWHERE?
everyone who could sing,
talk-sing,
or saaaaang always ended their albums with a ballad.
even madonna and britney were doing ballads.
i have a shit ton of ballads i love but my stand out favs:

i can listen to them on repeat all day.
yesterday,
i was up until 5 am and i decided to be productive.
jamari was ( x listening to this playlist ) while organizing his closet by colors,
shades,
and patterns.
as i was listening,
i had a question pop through my mind…

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so i watched barbarian last night and well… (help)

foxhole…
i watched this movie last night and i could not stop screaming.
my hand was to my mouth.
i covered my eyes at a point.
they “had” said on the social media forests:

Barbarian is the scariest horror movie they saw.

…and i was pumped.
you know i like a wild ride.
buuuuuttttttt,
ummmmerrraaahhhh…

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