tyrone swinton was killed by a younger hyena and all he did was help him

I knew an older gay male like this.

at his big age,
he is still struggling with his sexuality but he is a sucker for younger and attractive males.

i blame his church upbringing for hiding his true desires.
either way,
he gives these younger males money or a place to stay.

He only likes you if you are in need and he can be in control.
He doesn’t attract males who have their shit together and don’t need him.

many of these males have been to jail but using him for his kindness.
he let one stay the night at his spot only to be awakened by the jackal fuckin’ some hoe in his crib.

…but gonna highlight how he saw his dick and it was big.

he was all upset about it but i couldn’t help but judge.
now i don’t know if tyrone swinton (above) was gay but his story reminded me of the person i know.
tyrone lost his life trying to help someone who is troubled…

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the limiting beliefs of jamari fox (slow down)

the Foxhole is known for fonting about sexy males,
sex
,
and piping hot tea on occasion.
we have a good time in this neck of the woods.

My bread and butter has always been sharing my struggles and trauma.

that is usually what i get messages about.
i’ve gotten messages from Foxholers in countries where they can’t be themselves.
those folks have lived vicariously and found their healing through my words.
so it’s not a shocker when i strip naked with you.

Last night in therapy,
we had to do an exercise about forgiveness.
It is on the road map to healing.

i wrote my limiting beliefs that i wanted to share.
it’s something i was gonna keep private but i wanted The Foxhole to see it.
it could help someone else…

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when will we stop trying to get those who hurt us to acknowledge us?

i was posed with a thought after an intense therapy session today,
and even seeing clips of this mo’nique interview on club shay shay

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how DARE megan thee stallion use the line megan’s law! (she is so gross)

Who knew Megan Thee Stallion would shake up the start of 2024?

who knew the words,
megan’s law“,
would create such controversy?

richard kanka,
the father of megan kanka that was killed by a sexual predator,
is behind this lawsuit against megan.
per tmz

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eat my soft and chewy cookies and give me some milk after or…?

the following gives a new meaning to the late bernie mac‘s joke on the kings of comedy:

“Let me get some milk and cookies”

regardless of calling each other girls all day,
gay males are still males at the end of the day.
straights love to think they different but we have the same wiring.
this comment made sense to me:

the straights can’t say certain things to some gays without the 90s porn music going off,
especially this

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one side with a grain of salt please

this morning,
i was texting with my lil big sis and she fonted something that blew me away.

it was one of those oprah “a-ha” moments you get on random.
funny enough,
it was also about oprah too.
we were talking about the color purple,
taraji,
and all the bts drama that’s being alleged.

“I’m not ready to take her off my don’t like don’t want to meet list I mean she’s Oprah.
I’ll meet her but be clear I’m getting one side of Oprah and to take it with a grain of salt.”

that was my “a-ha” moment

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