Category: A LIL TASTE OF JAMARI

Sup Jamari,

Just got put on to your blog within the last week or so, and I got to say, you are my new favorite blogger.  So I saw on your blog we can look to you for advice, so here it goes:

First, a lil about me:

26 y/o, 6’2″ 180 lbs (I keep it tight, up in the gym 4-5x a week), light-skinned, curly hair, cute face, college educated, job/car/apt, a lil cash saved up, basically I think I got my shit together.  And I’m new to the lifestyle, if you don’t count the dude i 69ed with in college 7 years ago.  I’m not really looking for a relationship right now, so if I could have a few nights with a sexy, masc dude, that would make me happy.

OK, so I go inside the gas station to pre-pay and to get a few MegaMillions tickets.  As I’m waiting in line, I notice the cute, masculine dude behind the counter.  So when it’s my turn to pay, dude says to me “I bet a light-skinned dude like you get all the bitches don’t you?”  I was a little shocked, and didn’t know what to say in response, so I just laughed it off and handed dude my cash and left.

Questions:
1.  I’m not good at deciphering the DL/discreet signs, but I’m pretty sure dude was tryin to holla at me, no?
2.  So I can be prepared for if/when I see him again, how should I have handled the situation?

Thanks in advance for your thoughts,
Mr. Painfully clueless and shy……….and trying to change

A LIL TASTE OF JAMARI

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sup Jamari?

I read your blog all the time and love that shit. I was writing because I need a bit of advice. I’ve been messing with dudes for a few years now and have had no luck in the relationship department. I’ve had some one night stands, but nothing that lasts. Most times I get flat out rejected. Definitely bruises my ego. Every once in a while, I’ll encounter a dude that’s interested in me, but he’s usually unattractive or way too fem. I can never seem to pull a nice, attractive, masculine dude.
It seems that other dudes have an easy time getting the dudes they want. I’ve been looking at myself to see what it is I could do to improve my chances. This is my current situation:

– 23 yo, 5’8, 208 lbs, 37 w, dark-skinned, low fade, cute face
– got my own car, job, go to school from home (about to graduate)

I know my weight is holding me back and I’m working on getting rid of that shit. What else do you think I should to improve and start pulling the type of dudes that I want? Please give me any advice you can on what I could do. Thanks for taking the time out to read this shit.

Signed,

Mr. Single… and Hating It

A LIL TASTE OF JAMARI

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A LIL TASTE OF JAMARI STREET WALKER TALK ABOUT THAT "D"

Shout outs to all my dudes who holla’d at me in email.
I appreciate you checking me out.
Potential Daddies for the kid stand the F up!

Anyway,
Let’s talk about the art of being anon.

Real talk,
I can fuck with a celebrity, athlete, DL/Discreet kat and keep my mouth shut.
I guess living in the hood taught me that rule.
I do not need to be blabbing to everyone that I am getting platinum dick or attention from a celeb.
It is honestly no one’s business.
Even on my blog.
I keep my stories hot without naming names and outing someone.
You know I hate outing with a passion.

It is NEVER that serious.

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